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The Wedding Website of Matthew Grohowski and Violet Pendzuk
If you have any other questions, please reach out to Matt & Vi directly!
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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by March 15, 2025

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Is there a dress code?

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Yes! We ask that you please dress in semi-formal attire for the wedding day. What we recommend for women : long or midi dresses or jumpsuits, please refrain from wearing white or cream What we recommend for men : suit with jacket and tie Please no jeans or sneakers The North Carolina heat is brutal but in April it can be chilly in the evening. We will be outside for the ceremony & an outdoor tent for reception! There will be walking in grass throughout the day.

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Where do I stay?

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We would highly recommend staying on-site at the Graylyn Estate - whether you are NC local or traveling in! Graylyn has plenty of space for everyone and has incredible rooms and cottages available. For more information, please check the Travel tab.

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Can I bring a guest?

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If your guest's name is listed on your invitation or if you have a plus one option listed when you RSVP, then yes! Otherwise, we would love to keep the wedding intimate to close family and friends. If your plus one is not named on the RSVP, please let us know directly your guest's name.

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Can I bring kids?

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We have decided to only invite adults & young adults to our wedding. We hope you can understand and would love for you to join us for this special day! We understand this may impact your plans and we want to make sure you have plenty of time to make arrangements. Please let us know if you have any questions or concerns.

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What do I do if I have dietary restrictions?

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Please clarify your dietary restriction (allergy, diet, etc) on the RSVP form.

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