For our dress code jeans are allowed but the have to be nice blue jeans, no holes. Otherwise think of our wedding as whatever you are comfortable in as long as it's presentable. There is no color code you have to go by, just ladies, do not wear white or something close to white if you are wearing a dress. We will be outside for at least part of the wedding so ladies I would not recommend high heels.
Yes, kids and plus ones are welcome just make sure you include them in the rsvp. If you show up with someone you did not rsvp for they will be asked to leave because there won't be enough seating or food for them.
We would prefer that guests rsvp within a month of getting the invitations, which can be done right on the website