FAQs

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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Please RSVP by Saturday, June 14, 2025. This will give us plenty of time to finalize arrangements and ensure everything is perfect for your arrival. If you’re able to respond sooner, that would be greatly appreciated! We want to make sure we accommodate everyone and have a seamless experience for all our guests.

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Can I bring a guest?

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If your invitation includes a plus-one, we’d love for you to bring them! Please RSVP for yourself and your guest, as their name will appear under yours when you RSVP. Due to limited space, we kindly ask that only those formally invited on your wedding invitation attend.

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Are children invited to the wedding?

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While we love your little ones, the venue has restrictions that prevent us from including children in the wedding. As a result, we’ve decided to make our celebration an adults-only event, with the exception of a few young family members. We hope this allows everyone to fully relax and enjoy the day, and we truly appreciate your understanding. If you require childcare during the wedding, we’re happy to assist! Let us know, and we can work with our wedding planner to arrange reputable babysitting services.

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What should I do if I can’t make it?

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You will be missed! If you can not make it to the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP "no", so we can plan accordingly.

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Will there be any planned events before or after the wedding?

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Yes! In addition to the wedding, we have planned a Welcome to Portugal: Golden Hour Gathering, a Wedding After Party, and a Farewell Brunch. We kindly ask guests to RSVP to each event they plan to attend so we can get an accurate headcount. You'll find these events included in your RSVP.

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What should I wear to the wedding?

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The dress code is formal. This means: For women – A floor-length gown, midi dress, or a chic evening outfit. Elegant fabrics like silk, chiffon, or satin work beautifully. For men – A dark suit or tuxedo with a dress shirt and tie or bow tie. If you'd like to coordinate with our wedding colors, they are black, white, green, and blue. Elegant tones like champagne, navy, light blue, silver, and emerald green would also be lovely, though not required. As we’ll be celebrating both indoors and outdoors in Portugal’s beautiful climate, we recommend wearing breathable fabrics to stay comfortable throughout the day.

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Can I take pictures and post on social media?

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We kindly ask that all guests keep their phones and cameras tucked away during our ceremony—we’re having an unplugged moment so our photographers can capture the magic without distractions. After we say "I do," snap away! We’d love for you to share your photos and tag us so we can relive the celebration through your eyes. You can find us on Instagram as @mathew_with_1_t and @aliciasandbakken

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Do you have a wedding registry?

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Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift, and we’re so grateful to celebrate this special moment with you! If you’d like to honor us with a gift, we have a registry available for your convenience. You can have gifts sent directly to our home to make traveling easier. For those attending the wedding, we’ll also have a wedding card box at the reception. Thank you for your thoughtfulness—we’re so excited to celebrate with you!

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What airport should I fly into?

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Please fly into Humberto Delgado Airport (LIS) in Lisbon, as it is the main international gateway. We recommend staying in Cascais, which is a short drive or train ride away.

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How do I get from Lisbon to Cascais (where we’ll be staying)?

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From Lisbon Airport, you can take a taxi, private transfer, or train to Cascais. The train departs from Cais do Sodré Station and takes about 40 minutes. It’s a scenic and convenient option. Taxis and transfers are also readily available.

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What should I do if I have dietary restrictions/allergies?

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Please let us know about any dietary restrictions or preferences (e.g., vegetarian, gluten-free, etc.) when you RSVP. We want everyone to enjoy the celebration, so we’ll work with the venue to ensure your needs are accommodated. Our wedding will include a variety of hors d'oeuvres during the cocktail hour, followed by a sit-down dinner. If you have specific requirements, we’ll make sure your meal is tailored to suit your needs. Your comfort and enjoyment are important to us, so don’t hesitate to share any concerns!

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes, there will! Cocktails will be served during the cocktail hour, wine and beer will be available during dinner, and a full open bar will be open for the dance party. Cheers to celebrating together!

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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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Our wedding ceremony will take place outdoors, so you can enjoy the beautiful oceanfront scenery. The dinner and dancing will be held indoors, providing a cozy and comfortable setting for the celebration. Mid-September typically brings lovely weather, with warm days and cooler evenings. Temperatures usually range between 70–80°F (21–27°C) during the day and can dip to around 60°F (15°C) at night. We recommend bringing a light jacket or wrap for the evening, just in case.

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What will the schedule look like on the wedding day?

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We’ve planned an amazing day to celebrate with you! Guests should plan to arrive at 4:30 PM: Ceremony: 4:30 – 5:30 PM Cocktail hour: 5:30 – 7 PM Dinner: 7:15 – 9:30 PM Cake and Sparkling Wine: 9:30 – 10 PM Dancing: 10 PM – 12 AM But the celebration doesn’t end there! After the dance wraps up, join us for an after-party in Cascais to keep the fun going. We can’t wait to celebrate all night long with you!