FAQs

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Where will the ceremony and reception be held?

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The ceremony will be held indoors at Bethel Lutheran Church and the reception is outdoors at our family cabin called "The Pines."

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What should I wear?

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We’re asking guests to wear semi-formal attire—something a step up from casual, but not full-on black tie. Think cocktail dresses, dress pants with dress shirts or blouses, or suits without a tie. (No white of course) Also be mindful of the weather conditions as the reception will be held outdoors. The reception will be held on a dirt pathway, please wear shoes you feel will be best for dancing! We want you to look and feel your best with a sense of comfort! (Bridal party colors are burgundy, terracotta, rust, and navy blue.)

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What time should I arrive?

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The ceremony will start promptly at 3 PM so we ask that you are in your seats no later than 2:45 PM so you don't miss it!

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Can I bring a plus-one?

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We’re so excited to celebrate with you! Due to space limitations, we are only able to accommodate those listed on the invitation. Thank you for understanding!

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Can I bring my children?

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Children are welcome to attend if they are listed on your invitation. However, the cabin is located in the woods so we ask that if you decide to bring your children to the reception that you keep a close eye on them so they do not wander off. If you plan to drink at the reception and you brought your children, please ensure that you and the children will have a sober ride home if you are not camping at the cabin.

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Can I take pictures?

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We hired an amazing photographer to capture our day, so we kindly ask that you please refrain from taking photos during the ceremony. We want everyone to be fully present in the moment with us and once we receive the photos, we promise to share them with you. Thank you!

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Where should I stay if I am traveling?

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The cabin has a little bit of space to set up some tents as well as a few smaller campers! (fish houses, pop-ups, etc.) If you would like to have a set up at the cabin, please contact the bride and groom no later than August 1st! If the cabin is full, the Grant Haven RV Campground in Wilton is only 6 miles from the cabin as well as the nearest hotel being 10 miles away! (See the Travel page) Please plan sober rides accordingly.

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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Please respond to your invitation no later than August 22nd as we need to get an accurate guest count to make sure we get enough food! If you do not RSVP in time, we will assume you are unable to attend.

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What should I do if I can't make it?

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We will miss you! If you cannot attend, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP "not attending" so we can plan accordingly.

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Where do I park?

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For the reception, since it is at a cabin, there is not really an "ideal" spot to park. We ask that you please park on the side of the gravel road (Thoren Drive) and not in the cabin's driveway unless already discussed with the bride and groom.

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What time should I be at the reception venue?

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Since dinner is not until 5 pm, we ask that if you are attending the reception, to be there at 4:15pm so you do not miss the grand entrance and speeches!

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What is for dinner?

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As requested by the groom, there will be a taco bar as well as smokey mac-and-cheese made special by the father of the bride.

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Is there going to be a bar?

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There will not be a bar service but there will be kegs of beer that are at no cost!

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Can I bring my own adult beverages?

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Yes, you can bring your own alcohol but we ask that you do not bring any hard liquor onto the property. If you wish to bring your own, we ask that you keep it out of the open if you do not plan to share. If you do want to share, there will be beer troughs that you can store your beverages in along with other beverages that will be free for you to grab. However, if you did not choose to "stock the bar" please refrain from drinking those beverages to keep it fair to all who did.

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I have a question about the wedding the week/day of, who do I contact?

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Please contact the matron of honor or the groom himself, or anyone but the bride. Thanks!