First they started out as friends. Maryruth sent John a facebook friends request because they had mutual friends. After a couple of days John accepted her request. At first John asked who she was and why she sent him a friend request and she told him that she was friends with some of his friends like her nutter butter. So John said his famous words that's cool and over the next couple of weeks they exchanged phone number and would talk to each other having one another to hear out their problems. John had a problem with trust due to all his ex's and his failed marriage and Maryruth made him feel great again. Maryruth also has had a failed marriage and was in another failing marriage. John told her to talk to her douche bag husband because he has been in that same problem with his ex wife and told maryruth to find out if he would change but he wouldn't so she made the choice to end it with him and her and John would go hang out later that week and like John and Maryruth wanted to know was there feelings for one another that was greater then a friendship and that week they found out that not only did they have feelings for one another that they may have found their other half a soul mate in deed.......Its been four long years and one bumpy road but that's just life but no matter what life has thrown at this couple they have come out stronger then before and they Invite you all to share with them they day two hearts become one they have set their wedding date for March 16 2019

John remembered Maryruth saying she really didn't get anything for her birthday so on this day of June 10 2015 he brought her a cake and some gifts but the greatest gift of all was when he got down on one knee and asked her to become his wife and by the way yes he went to kays lol

John and Maryruth's love would forever be put to the test starting on December 3 2015. For on this day John would get hurt at work. After six months of Pain, testing and doctors. They found out John had a rare condition known as RSD or better known as Complex Regional Pain Syndrome deeming John disable and no longer able to work. The pain John deals with on a daily bases is worse then giving birth without any medication. Maryruth describes John's condition as waking up with a new born baby because in the middle of the night John will go though a flair up and start screaming and crying. Maryruth has stepped up not only working a full time job of forty hours plus to keep a roof over their heads food in their belly's and bills paid she also is John's full time caretaker. This condition would normally break a young couple up but their love is stronger then the condition and won't be beat... So Please remember that on March 16 2019 this couple is tight on money and may not even have a honeymoon so If he would like to help there is a section to donate for their honeymoon even if its only a couple of nights at a nice hotel its better then nothing and everything would help no matter how big or small............................................. Want more info on Johns condition please feel free to visit https://www.rsd.org