FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Ideally, please RSVP by September 1st, 2025. Latest will be Sept 26th. Thank you!

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What if I did not get to RSVP on time?

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If we do not receive an RSVP by September 26th, 2025, it is an automatic "no" or decline as we have sent our save the dates and invitations at a reasonable time frame. As much as we would have loved for you to be there, we have limited time for a final head count for the venue.

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What time should I arrive?

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If you are attending the ceremony, please arrive by 2:45pm-3:00pm EST. If you are not attending the ceremony, please arrive around or at 4:00 pm EST. There is cocktail hour in which you are able to meet and greet people! This is the welcome event before the reception.

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Is there a ceremony?

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As much as we want everyone to be a part of our ceremony, we are keeping it private to family and family friends only. We will still have our welcome event and cocktail hour then followed by the reception to celebrate with everyone.

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Will this be an unplugged wedding?

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If you are attending the ceremony, please note that this will be an unplugged wedding. We want our guests to be present for this moment with us. So please, no cell phones & cameras during the ceremony.

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Can I bring a date or a plus one?

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Our seats are very limited on whom is on the guest list. It will be based on the final guest count. Please contact if possible, but also, do not bring anyone who is not on the guest list or has been approved as seats will be assigned and no extra seats will be available.

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Is there a dress code?

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Yes there is. This is a formal event, so please dress accordingly. We just ask our guests to please not wear blue.

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Why can we not wear blue?

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Since we do not have a bridal party, we want our immediate family members to stand out.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes, please contact Mary Anne or Edward for any allergies to coordinate with the caterers.

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Are kids welcome?

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Our seats/tables are very limited on whom is on the guest list. Please contact if possible.

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Is there parking?

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Parking is limited at the venue for a few cars and a couple of handicap parking spots. There is free ample street parking just infront of the venue as it is across a public park.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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There is a hotel nearby the venue, The MC hotel. It is in the main street of Montclair. The is also Cambria hotel. Please check out the "Things to do" or "Travel" tab for the address.

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Are you registered? Where?

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We are registered here on Zola. There is tab on the menu above titled "Registry". You are not required to buy anything on the registry.