Yes, there is a lot when you pull in
Good question, no. We have a life built, we don't need anything. More than anything we want your company in celebrating our union, if we can make it more affordable for you even better.
There is no dress code but we'd appreciate it if you didn't wear jeans, clothes with obvious holes, or all white
There will be a bar but you are expected to pay for your own drinks. Drink responsibly.
The names on the invite are who is invited. As per the invite, this is a child free event. It's not that we don't love you and your whole family, this just isn't a child friendly event. We would love to spend time with you and you kids another time, lets plan a visit. If you need help making arrangements for childcare, we are happy to help brainstorm.
Nothing is required of you, like at all. If you really want to do something you can - contribute to the honeymoon fund - help with wedding prep (DIY decorations, day of help,.....).