FAQs

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ARE CHILDREN ALLOWED?

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Unfortunately, no. This is an adult only wedding. You deserve a date night out anyway and have 10 months to find childcare!

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DRAMA FREE ZONE

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Jeff and I are very serious when we say, bring the vibes and leave the attitude/drama at the door. You will be asked to leave. Nothing personal and no exceptions!

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THIS IS A PHONE FREE/UNPLUGGED CEREMONY

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This is also a non negotiable. We are paying someone to catch all the memories we could want and need. Not to get photos of your hand up or in the aisle. You will be asked to leave.

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OMG, WHAT DO I WEAR?

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This is not a black-tie formal wedding. However, please do not show up like it is a night out, wearing jeans or in sneakers. Also, it goes without saying..no white!

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CAN I BRING MY COUSIN'S UNCLES HAMPSTER?

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Unfortunately, we cannot accommodate everyone to have a plus one. Plus one's will be extended privately and if you did not get one, please don't ask.

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IRISH GOODBYE

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If you are leaving for the night, please don't feel obligated to hunt us down to say goodbye. We will be having a farewell breakfast Saturday morning and can do goodbyes and hugs then! This makes it so we can all stay in the moment.

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Have a favorite/family recipe?

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Since we are starting our new life and family, we would love to start it with parts of our loved ones! If you could please bring a handwritten recipe on an index card and leave it with us on the big day! Meals that will bring us comfort and yumminess. Thank you :)

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WHEN DO I RSVP BY AND HOW?

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Please RSVP by 5/5/26 by text or calling one of us. Mary's number is on the invite. If you need more time, please let one of us know. If we do not hear from you, it will be assumed you are not going to be in attendance, and a place will not be saved.