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WHEN DO I NEED TO RSVP BY?WHEN DO I NEED TO RSVP BY?

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Please RSVP as soon as you can — and no later than November 8th. 🎄 With a guest list this size, seating is tighter than Santa’s toy workshop, and we want to make sure every seat is accounted for. If we don’t hear from you by then, we can’t guarantee a spot at the table (or on the dance floor). 🎶 If you’ll be booking a hotel, we recommend doing so sooner rather than later — Christmas is a busy season in our little town, and rooms will go faster than Santa up a chimney! 🏨✨

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WHAT TIME SHOULD I ARRIVE IF I AM NOT COMING FOR PRE-CEREMONY DRINKS?WHAT TIME SHOULD I ARRIVE IF I AM NOT COMING FOR PRE-CEREMONY DRINKS?

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We recommend arriving about 15–20 minutes before the ceremony so you can grab a seat and be ready for the official nuptials of Mrs Claus and Santa! 🔔

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ARE CHILDREN INVITED TO THE WEDDING?ARE CHILDREN INVITED TO THE WEDDING?

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As much as we love little elves, this is a grown-up Christmas party — no guests under 18, please. Between the flowing spirits, late-night dancing, and some questionable carol-singing, it’s best we leave the reindeer games to the adults. 🥂

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CAN I BRING A GUEST?CAN I BRING A GUEST?

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We’d love to celebrate with everyone we know, but we are working with a limited design area, and we have to be mindful of our space and seating. If your invitation includes “& guest,” then you are more than welcome to bring someone along. If not, we kindly ask that you attend solo this time. Should we have extra seats open up closer to the big day, we’ll happily reach out and let you know. Thank you for understanding and helping us keep our guest list wrapped up just right. 🎁

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IS THERE A DRESS CODE?IS THERE A DRESS CODE?

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We’re dreaming of a semi-formal Christmas! Think suits and dresses rather than black-tie gowns or tuxedos. Our wedding colors lean into the cozy, and Laurie's "moody" side of the season—burgundy, deep sapphire, pine green, and other wintry hues. While you don’t need to match our palette, feel free to be inspired by it if you’d like to look extra merry & bright. ✨

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IS THERE PARKING ONSITE?IS THERE PARKING ONSITE?

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Yes! The Community Center has a large lot with plenty of spaces for all our guests. 🚗✨ That said, carpooling with friends or family is always a holly-jolly option — more fun arriving together, and fewer reindeer needed to pull the sleigh. 🦌🎄 And if you plan on enjoying plenty of holiday spirits, a rideshare (Uber/Lyft) is a safe and merry way to get home. 🍸✨

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IS IT OK TO POST PHOTOS & VIDEOS ON SOCIAL MEDIA?IS IT OK TO POST PHOTOS & VIDEOS ON SOCIAL MEDIA?

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Yes! We would love to see all of the captured candid photos and videos of you (and us) on our special day. If you do post on social media, please use #marrychrismiss so we can easily find them. Also, there will be QR codes posted around with instructions to upload photos to a special album everyone will have access to if you choose.

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DO YOU HAVE A WEDDING REGISTRY?DO YOU HAVE A WEDDING REGISTRY?

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We do not. We've lived together for almost a decade, so we don't need any more "stuff" to pile into this house Lol - So instead of a traditional registry, we’re asking for your help… and giving you the power to decide just how far we get. 🏕️ $5–$50: Backyard Bliss Tent camping + microwave s’mores. Romance? Yes. Mosquito bites? Also yes. 🛏️ $51–$200: Budget Getaway A weekend at the Best Western. Bonus if there’s a vending machine and free ice. ✈️ $201–$999: Domestic Jet Setters We might actually leave the state—and fly on an airline that gives free snacks. 🌴 $1,000+: International Lovebirds Beach sunsets, fruity drinks, and us sending “wish you were here” texts just to rub it in. No pressure, no expectations—just a chance to help us trade laundry days for lazy beach days. We’ll go as far as your generosity takes us!