FAQs

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What time should we arrive?

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The Ceremony will start at 3:00pm, we look forward to having everyone mingle and enjoy time together to catch up before it starts; please arrive at 2:00-2:30 pm.

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I am used to calling Jay by a different name/pronouns, Can I use that name/pronouns?

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In short, yes. Jay knows that for many of the attendees, this is the first time you are hearing of this change. However, please be respectful and make an effort to use the correct name/pronouns, as that is what will be used at the wedding and in the future. Accidents are perfectly fine and expected to happen.

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Are kids welcome?

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This is a child-free event, but you are welcome to bring home a wedding favor for them!

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When should I RSVP by?

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The deadline to RSVP is by August 1st, 2026. Please be aware of this date as it is a hard deadline so we can make the preparation and accommodations necessary.

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Do You Have A Registry?

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Yes! If you feel inclined: https://www.amazon.com/wedding/guest-view/1BXXKWGAW5KA4 Please do not feel obligated to buy a gift, as your presence at our wedding will be a present.

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Is there a dress code?

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Yes! Please be in cocktail attire, preferably warm autumn colors. If you are having issues with what that color palate would be, please see the following link for the color palate used for the wedding:

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What Food Will be Served?

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We will be doing a buffet-style dinner to accommodate the varying dietary restrictions of guests. If you have concerns about the dining, please let Jay/Marlee know, we are intending on having a variety of options.

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Who Is Manda Schott?

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Manda is our wedding coordinator! You will see her on the wedding day & at rehearsal as she helps us keep our sanity. Please follow her directions and guidance as she will be ensuring everything goes smoothly.