FAQs

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What’s the theme?

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GOWNS & GRILLZ! “Rob the jewelry store and tell em make you a grill!” (In our Nelly vc) We’re bringin’ together elegance with a lil’ Southern flair and boldness—so come dressed to impress and don’t be scared to shine! If you got grillz, baby go ‘head and pop out with ‘em but don’t feel no pressure at all. You don’t have to wear them if you don’t have them. We just want you lookin’ good, feelin’ good, and ready to celebrate real big with us! This is just a fun addition of you dressing to impress.

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What is the dress code?

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Dress To Impress! Guests are encouraged to dress in semi-formal and/or formal attire. Whichever suits you best. Think elegant gowns, cocktail dresses, stylish suits, or tuxedos.

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What’s the vibe?

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It’s a Family Reunion! Expect a joyful celebration full of love, music, laughter, and dancing. Our goal is for everyone to feel like they’re part of a big family celebration.

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Where will the ceremony and reception take place?

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Both the ceremony and reception will take place in Jacksonville, Florida on the second floor of The Conference Center at the Main Library Downtown. The Ceremony and Reception will take place in the outdoor courtyard. The cocktail hour will take place inside the library on the second floor.

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What are the wedding colors?

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Emerald green, white and gold.

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Can I wear the wedding party colors?

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Absolutely! We don’t mind if you wear our wedding colors—emerald green, gold, or even touches of white. The only thing we kindly ask is that guests do not wear all white, as that is reserved for the bride. Thank you for helping us keep that moment special!

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What time should I arrive?

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5:30 p.m. Guests are encouraged to arrive 30 minutes before the ceremony begins so everyone can be seated comfortably before the celebration starts.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Due to limited venue capacity, only guests formally listed on the invitation will be accommodated.

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Are children invited?

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We love celebrating with family of all ages! However, due to space limitations, only the children listed on the invitation will be accommodated.

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Will there be food?

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Absolutely! Being that the wedding starts at 6:00 p.m. we figure, by the time you arrive you will have already eaten, but We have a great assortment of delicious finger foods, desserts and drinks for you to enjoy!

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Can I take photos and videos?

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Yes! We love capturing memories. Just be mindful during the ceremony so our professional photographers can capture those special moments.

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Can we post on social media?

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Of course! Please tag us and use our wedding hashtags: #TheWallaces #TheWallacesSayIDo #JayAndKesh #TWSID #GownsAndGrillz

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What gifts should I bring?

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The greatest gift is your presence. However, if you’d like to bless us with a gift, you may explore our registry, contribute to our honeymoon fund, or share a gift card. We will have a table for cards and gift bags as well.

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Do you have room blocks available for out of town guests?

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Yes! Rooms are available for a discounted rate at the Southbank Hotel at Riverwalk. Please click on the travel tab in the navigation menu for more details and to book your room! First come first serve. Deadline to book your room is July 6th.

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Will we be checked in when we arrive?

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Yes, you will be checked in when you arrive via the guest list.

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Can I rsvp now?

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Yes! Go to the RSVP tab in the navigation menu to RSVP.

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What happens if I miss the rsvp deadline?

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If we don’t hear from you by the deadline, we’ll assume you’re unable to attend. We’ll definitely miss you, but this helps us stay on track with seating, catering, and planning.

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When is the rsvp deadline?

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We kindly ask that you RSVP by June 1, 2026 so we can finalize all of the details with our vendors. We truly appreciate you helping us make this day as smooth and special as possible!

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What if I Rsvp’d “yes” but can no longer attend?

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We completely understand that life happens! If your plans change, please let us know as soon as you can so we can update our final count. We’ll miss celebrating with you, but we appreciate you keeping us informed!

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What if I can make it, but my husband, wife or child listed on the invitation can’t make it?

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It’s okay, please let us know that when you RSVP so that we can updated the guest count.

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Where do we park?

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Parking is free on the weekends downtown. You can park along the street or you can park in the parking lots near the library. If you have questions please call Markeishya.

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My name doesn’t pop up when I’m trying to RSVP, What should I do?

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Don’t worry, you’re definitely on the list, we aren’t sure why your name doesn’t come up. It may be a glitch in the Zola system. Please make sure you reach out to us via email at thewallacessayido@gmail.com to let us know or text us at +1 (351) 529-7742.