FAQs

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How to RSVP

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Please enter your name on the RSVP page to view your invitation(s) details

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What should I wear

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We encourage you to wear whatever you feel comfortable and confident in! Attire: Dressy casual / cocktail. Think enchanted, moody fairytale garden—and since it’s the day before Halloween, a little extra drama is always welcome 🖤 If you’d like inspiration, think corsets, ruffles, blazers, and flowy silhouettes to complement our enchanted atmosphere. Themed attired is not mandatory but welcomed *Keep in mind to wear shoes appropriate for standing in grass for the ceremony and brick flooring for the reception. Below are links for Pinterest boards for men and women if you would like themed inspiration: Women: https://pin.it/C7VDZVpuW Men: https://pin.it/7bZnAfmmT *copy and paste link into your browser

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Are kids allowed?

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While we love your little ones, our wedding will be a mostly adults-only celebration, with the exception of immediate family children (such as our nieces and nephews). Please note that the venue includes a pool. For everyone’s safety, we kindly ask that children are closely supervised at all times

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What is the timing for the day?

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4:00pm Ceremony at Calumet Park 4:45pm Reception begins at La Jolla private home on La Mesa Drive 5:00pm Taco/Bar open 10:00pm End of evening/DJ to stop playing

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What is the seating for the Ceremony?

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We will have reserved seating for immediate family, along with some open seating for guests. As seating is limited, you may be standing on grass for our brief (~20-minute) ceremony. The ceremony is optional—please feel free to join us for the reception if you prefer!

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Ceremony & Reception Invites

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Kindly note that your invitation will specify the event(s) you are invited to. While we would love to have everyone at the ceremony, our permit restricts to a limited amount of people. We look forward to celebrating with you all at the reception!

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What are the meal options?

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We will have a a taco bar with carne asada (beef), pollo asado (chicken), and Adobada (pork) tacos, and cheese quesadillas.

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Is there formal seating?

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We’re keeping things more relaxed—no formal seating, but there will be cocktail tables throughout the space for mingling, eating, and drinks.

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Where should I park?

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Both Ceremony & Reception locations have free street parking. If you plan to drink, please don't plan to drive. The Ceremony to the Reception is 1.2 miles/5 minute drive.