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Marissa & Kyler

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Kyler Saetern

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Marissa Mendoza

November 7, 2026

Carlsbad, CA
394 days394 d23 hours23 h4 minutes4 min55 seconds55 s

Our Story

Fate quietly brought Marissa and Kyler closer over time, even as they narrowly missed each other—in Hawaii, Joshua Tree, and even in a Target aisle—each moment a near-miss that felt like the universe saying, “Not yet.” Their story truly began when Kyler reached out on Hinge with a playful message, sparking conversations that grew into something real despite the miles and challenges ahead. Their first date at Buffalo Wild Wings during the 2023 World Series was filled with laughter and connection, marking the start of their journey together. While Marissa began her clinical rotations and Kyler prepared for deployment, they treasured every phone call, visit, and message, holding tight to their connection despite the miles between them. They marked milestones like their first Christmas, New Year's, and birthdays. When Marissa relocated back to Nevada and Kyler was deployed, their love persevered through thousands of miles, lots of texts, and late FaceTime calls. Kyler’s return in October 2024 marked a new chapter. They spent the holidays side by side, grateful for every shared moment. Then, on March 16, 2025, Kyler proposed with a ring he lovingly handcrafted—a true symbol of their patience, commitment, and enduring love. Their story is one of missed opportunities, strength, and a love that conquers distance and time. And this beautiful journey is only just beginning.

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