We encourage you to feel inspired and express your personal style on our special day. Whether you wear Western or Indian attire, we want you to feel comfortable and confident as you join us in dancing the night away and fully enjoying the festivities! If you plan to wear Indian clothes, below you can read up on a few of the most popular styles of Indian wedding guest clothes to ensure a seamless shopping experience. For Women: Traditional options include sarees, lehengas, or suits. Bright, bold colors such as red, gold, green, pink, and royal blue are highly favored for weddings. Lehenga: A lehenga is a three-piece ensemble for women that consists of a blouse, a skirt, and a dupatta (which is like a scarf or shawl). This would be a great option for the Sangeet & Mehendi or reception. Sari: A sari (also spelled saree) is a garment for women that is made from a single unstitched piece of fabric, which drapes around the entire body. It can be worn in a few different ways based on the wearer's preference. This would be a great option for the Sangeet & Mehendi or reception. Punjabi Suit: A Punjabi suit, also known as a Salwar Kameez, is designed specifically for women. It consists of three pieces: A tunic, trousers and a dupatta. This is the most appropriate for the Anand Karaj (wedding ceremony). You can also opt for this at the Sangeet & Mehendi. For Men: A kurta, sherwani, or a traditional suit will add to the spirit of the celebration. Rich colors like gold, maroon, navy, and deep green are popular choices. Kurta Pajama: A kurta pajama is a two-piece set for men consisting of a loose-fitting tunic top that is paired with matching trousers. This is most appropriate for the Sangeet & Mehendi or Anand Karaj (wedding ceremony). I Indian Wedding Attire Websites Aashnni + Co Kalki Fashion Lashkaraa Pernias Pop-Up Shop Poonams Kaurture
Anand Karaj: The Blissful Union Anand Karaj is the sacred Sikh wedding ceremony—a beautiful blend of spiritual tradition, heartfelt emotion, and joyful celebration. The day begins with the Baraat, where the groom arrives on horseback, accompanied by family, friends, and lively dhol music. This is followed by the Milni, a warm exchange of greetings and garlands between families, symbolizing unity and mutual respect. Next is the Jai Mala, where the couple sees each other for the first time and exchanges floral garlands—marking the start of their journey. During the ceremony, the couple circles the Guru Granth Sahib Ji (Sikh holy scripture) four times (Lavan), each round representing a step in their spiritual and marital journey. The ceremony concludes with Langar, a shared vegetarian meal that reflects Sikh values of equality, service, and community. Picture a spiritual version of a Packers tailgate—communal, joyful, and delicious. Between Ceremony & Reception There’s a short break between the morning ceremony and evening reception, giving everyone time to rest, reflect, and prepare for the next celebration. Attire & Etiquette Head Coverings: Required inside the Gurdwara—scarves, bandanas, or ones we provide are perfect. Modesty: Dress respectfully and comfortably. Think elegant but not overly formal. Shoes & Clean Hands: Remove shoes and wash hands before entering the prayer hall. Sitting on the Floor: Guests sit cross-legged; seating is available if needed. Respect: Avoid pointing feet toward the Guru Granth Sahib Ji. Don’t worry if this is new—kind aunties and helpful guests will guide you! Your presence and participation mean the world to us. We can’t wait to share this special day with you.
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