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November 9, 2019
Fairmont, WV
#MEME2019

Malisa & Melvin

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What type of attire is expected for this event?

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This will be a black and white Semi-Formal to Formal event, unless told otherwise. Please be photo ready!

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Are there dress and grooming restrictions?

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What we wear is essentially a matter of personal choice. Our individual tastes vary, as do our financial resources. But whatever your situation, bear in mind this principle: “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.” (Ecclesiastes 3:1, Revised Standard Version) In other words, dress for the occasion. And second, “be modest in walking with your God.”—Micah 6:8. That does not mean dressing prudishly but, rather, in a way that is “well-arranged” and that reflects “soundness of mind.” (1 Timothy 2:9, 10) Often, this simply means showing restraint, a quality the magazine Working Woman links to good taste and elegance. As a good rule of thumb, never allow your clothes to enter the room first, to overwhelm others. Working Woman says: “Dress . . . so that people can look past your clothes and see your merits as an individual.” - g99 2/8 p 18

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Anything special that guest need to be prepared for?

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Yes! Learning the following dances: -The electric slide https://youtu.be/5jBkoEM0SSE -Biker shuffle https://youtu.be/gN8_AKbo0uM That’s a tutorial This is the original song https://youtu.be/acwDCINHpgQ -The Cupid shuffle https://youtu.be/fAhXfcm_v40 -Fine china https://youtu.be/8aSjgDrJAlQ -Love on top https://youtu.be/j5H6F1g9X7I -Cleveland shuffle https://youtu.be/NJk_qxFOkfI I’ll have to show u how to do that one. People change certain steps in the tutorials

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Do I have to wear black and white?

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The answer is absolutely, positively, and with out a doubt YES!

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Can I bring a friend?

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Only if your friend can produce a separate dinner invitation or with expressed permission from the bride or groom!

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Is it important to RSVP?

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Yes! The site will shut down for RSVP at 11:59:59 PM on September 15th.

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Is it appropriate to wear all white to the wedding or reception?

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“Traditionally, you would not wear white. White and ivory should be left for the bride — and that still holds true today,” said Gottsman. “Of course, you can wear a dress with some white in it, or have white somewhere within your outfit, but you shouldn't plan to show up wearing an all-white ensemble.” Today Show 6/17/16 BRIDE: “NO!”

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Is it too late to RSVP?

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Yes! The initial request for an update in information, only signified that you were invited. If you did not change the response from “no response” to “attending” for each individual, then you had not RSVP. In addition, if you tried to access the site on the 16th or after, it was no longer available to accept RSVPs due to the deadline. We are making every effort to extend this opportunity to everyone we love and we appreciate everyone’s understanding in this matter.

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