FAQs

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What is the attire?

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Dress Code: Black Tie Optional. We'd love to have our loved ones get dressed up for our big day. We invite you to embrace classic formal wear for the occasion. Gentlemen may choose a classic suit and tie or tuxedo, while ladies may opt for mid-length or floor-length dresses, jumpsuits, or evening separates. Color Palette: Feel free to use this as inspiration! You might consider hues like rich merlot/burgundy, metallics (gold, bronze, or gunmetal), classic navy blue, charcoal, or timeless black to embrace the season’s tones. Venue Considerations: The wedding will take place on a farm with all key events held indoors. There are scenic outdoor areas you’re welcome to explore, so we recommend bringing a warm layer for comfort. Please choose footwear suitable for natural terrain. A golf cart will be available for those needing assistance.

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How do I get to the venue?

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Transportation will be provided to and from Hotel LBI, Holiday Inn Manahawkin and Daddy O. Please refer to the Travel page for details. If you plan on driving, there’s plenty of parking at the venue—just follow the signs toward the back of the property. Uber is also an option, but please note it may take longer due to the off-season.

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Are there any other events around the wedding?

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Yes! Please refer to the Schedule page for details.

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When should I arrive for the ceremony?

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We kindly request our guests to arrive around 3 PM, as the ceremony will begin promptly at 3:30 PM. Refreshments and music will be available as we gather for this special ceremony.

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Are kids welcome? Can I bring a date?

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As much as we adore your little ones, we kindly ask that our wedding be an adults-only celebration unless otherwise specified on your invitation. Consider this a perfect opportunity for a date night! Regarding plus-ones, we’ve kept our guest list intimate, so invitations are reserved for those addressed.

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When should I RSVP by?

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To help us with our planning, please RSVP to the events as soon as possible. However, the deadline is November 1st, 2025. If we don't receive your RSVP by this date, we cannot make exceptions and will have to mark you as "no". We need to provide the venue with a total guest count in a timely manner, we hope you can understand.