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Our final date for accepting RSVPs is Saturday, August 8th 2026. If you cannot make it, please RSVP "no" as soon as possible so we can plan accordingly. You will be missed, but we completely understand if you are unable to make it.
If you don't RSVP in time (final date for accepting RSVPs is August 8th, 2026), you will be marked as "not attending". We would love to celebrate with you, however, we have to provide an exact guest count to our vendors and unfortunately cannot accept late RSVPs.
If your invitation includes an option for a plus one, then yes! Otherwise, unfortunately not. We have a set guest list and number of guests. Thank you for understanding.
We have reserved hotel rooms for guests at The Abbey Resort. Please see our Travel Page for more information on booking your stay.
This will be an adults-only celebration! We want you to be able to kick back, relax, and celebrate with us! We appreciate you making arrangements in advance to leave the kids at home.
Formal to black tie optional/creative. Formal garden party/coastal vibes. We’re envisioning a timeless, elegant celebration and invite our guests to dress accordingly. Women: Floor-length gowns, formal cocktail dresses, or elegant midi dresses Men: Suit with a tie or bow tie (tuxedos welcome but optional) We can’t wait to celebrate with you in style!
Yes! Come thirsty and ready to celebrate!
This will be a fun filled and busy weekend, we understand if you cannot make all events. Come to what you can! Just don’t forget to RSVP “no” to events you won’t be attending.
All events will be held at The Abbey Resort! We will not have transportation after the wedding if you are staying off property. Otherwise, there will be plenty of parking and valet at the resort.
Yes! There will be plenty of parking at The Abbey.
The ceremony will begin promptly at 3:00 pm, on Saturday, September 19th, 2026. Please arrive early to find a seat and enjoy a beverage! You are welcome to arrive as early as 2:30 pm.
We have hired a professional photographer to capture our special day, and ask that you do not use your cell phones during the ceremony. However, you are more than welcome to take photos and videos of the rest of the night!
The reception will end at midnight, but the party will continue! We welcome everyone to join the after-party at Chuck's Lakeshore Inn. Transportation will not be provided as Chuck's is within walking distance from The Abbey Resort. Chuck's Lakeshore Inn: 352 Lake St, Fontana-On-Geneva Lake, WI 53125