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September 12, 2026
Cape May, NJ

M & J

FAQs

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When should I book my hotel?

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Sooner rather than later! Early fall is still a popular time in Cape May, and rooms tend to go quickly.

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Do you have hotel blocks?

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Yes! We’ve reserved blocks at several nearby hotels, plus additional first-come, first-served discount codes. All details are listed on our Travel page.

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When should I book flights?

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If you’re flying in, we recommend booking 3–6 months in advance for the best options and prices.

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What airport should I fly into?

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The closest major airport is Philadelphia International Airport (PHL)—about 1 hour and 40 minutes from Cape May. Atlantic City and Newark are also options, depending on your travel plans.

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How do I get to Cape May from the airport?

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Most visitors rent a car for the weekend. Uber/Lyft availability can vary once you’re in Cape May, so having your own car is helpful.

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What’s the weather like in mid-September?

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Typically warm days (70s) with cooler evenings by the water. Layers are your friend.

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What should I wear?

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Dress code details will be included in our formal invitation, but plan for cocktail.

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Will there be transportation on the wedding day?

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No—there will not be shuttles. The ceremony and reception are about a 10-minute drive apart, so we recommend carpooling, Uber/Lyft, or driving between locations.

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What about parking?

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Parking in Cape May can be a little tricky—most spots are metered, and availability varies by block. There is limited parking at the ceremony, but no parking at the reception. We recommend downloading the ParkMobile app ahead of time for easy meter payments. The good news: Cape May is very walkable, and the reception venue is close to most hotels.

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Are kids invited?

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Please refer to your invitation for specifics. If you need babysitting options, we’re happy to share local recommendations.

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Can I bring a plus-one?

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Your invitation will indicate whether a plus-one is included.

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How do I RSVP?

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RSVP instructions will be included with our formal invitations, which will go out closer to the wedding date.

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Do you have a registry?

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We’ll share our registry on this site closer to the big day.