FAQs

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Can I rsvp online or do I have to mail in an rsvp card?

Answer

Both! If you would like to mail us your RSVP card, you may. You also have the option to RSVP online as soon as you know whether you will be joining us or not. Please RSVP by September 1st, 2025.

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Is there a dress code?

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The dress code for our wedding is semi-formal. Tuxes and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and cocktail dresses.

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Can I bring my children?

Answer

You know we LOVE your kids, but due to the venue restrictions, we are only able to accommodate children of our close family and/or our wedding party. Thank you for your understanding!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Guests may begin to arrive at 3:30 p.m. The ceremony will begin at 4:30 p.m.

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What type of food will be served?

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The Lilly Pad will be serving items from their incredible menu! There will be many different options for guests to choose from. Menus/QR codes will be posted at the wedding with the options, and servers will be coming around to take drink and food orders.

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Will your wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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The wedding ceremony and reception will both be outdoors. Once you arrive at the venue, you will be directed to make your way to the "peninsula" which is where the ceremony will be held. There will be tents, and fire pits located at the restaurant, which is where the reception will be.

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Can I bring a date?

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Plus ones will only be allowed if noted on the wedding invitation. Please see your invite. Thank you for your understanding and we can't wait to celebrate with you!

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Where should we bring/send our wedding gift?

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Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for! If you would like to honor us with a gift, you can either bring it to the wedding or have it delivered to our home address, 33013 Seacock Chapel Road Ivor, VA 23866. Please see our registry for gift ideas.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, there is plenty of parking available at The Lilly Pad. Cars may be left overnight, but please plan on picking up your car the next day. Ubers, Lyft and taxis will pick up and drop off from this location. There will be an open bar, so please plan responsibly.