Yes! We are asking our guests to dress up with us! Formal wear is required (Formal is not the same as black tie). As our ceremony will take place in a Catholic church, we kindly ask that guests adhere to a formal dress code in respect to the sacred setting. This is mandatory per the venue. For Men: A suit is required or tuxedo is preferred. A tie is recommended, and we encourage a formal, polished look that complements the sacred atmosphere. Wear black or a dark color!!! The dress shirt can be white. For Women: We recommend elegant, formal attire such as floor length dresses (please no short, midi, or tea length dresses), elegant pantsuits or formal gowns. Women should avoid low cut/plunging necklines and sheer garments. Strapless is okay. We suggest bringing a shawl or jacket for added modesty in the church if you are concerned about the neckline. You can take it off for the reception. Color: Black is highly encouraged (the bride's favorite color) , but not mandatory (I wanted to make it mandatory but I already know people aren't going to listen or follow instructions). If you are not going to wear black, please wear a color from the fall color palette – think rich tones like burgundy, navy, deep green, mustard, and plum. These colors will help create a warm, elegant atmosphere. Please remember: No white – that color is reserved for the bride! Please no jeans, plaid or sneakers. If you have any questions at all, please reach out to the bride for clarification.
The ceremony will start promptly at 3:00pm. Doors open at 2:30. Plan accordingly for downtown traffic and parking. Once the ceremony starts we will shut the doors and you will not be allowed in the ceremony. Parking is answered below.
The sooner the better! The last day to RSVP is September 10th 2025. If we do not get an RSVP back by the date provided, it will be marked as a "No". We will miss celebrating with you but we have to provide total guest counts to our vendors in a timely manner.
Due to limited capacity we will only be able to accommodate those specifically listed on your formal wedding invitation. If you received a plus one, there will be a place to share who your plus one will be when you RSVP. If you don't, please respect our wishes because we are only allowed to have a certain number of guests due to venue capacity. If you have any questions, please reach out!
We love having little ones around and are excited to celebrate with your family! Only Children who are listed on the formal invitation are welcome. While children are welcome, please note that our event will feature adult-oriented food, music, and drinks. We kindly ask that parents prepare accordingly to ensure everyone enjoys the celebration. Thank you for your understanding!
Yes, our wedding ceremony will be a full Catholic Mass. Since our faith is an important part of our lives and relationship, we wanted to begin our marriage with the richness and tradition of a full Mass. The service will last about an hour, and everyone is welcome to join in this meaningful celebration with us. Please note that in the Catholic faith, only practicing Catholics who are in a state of grace may receive the Eucharist (Communion). However, everyone is warmly welcome to join us in prayer and to receive a blessing during Communion if they'd like. So if you are NOT catholic you may NOT receive communion.
No, you can take photos and videos but please do no block the aisle or the photographer/videographer. There will be plenty of time to take pictures with us. I also do not care if you post wedding before we do, all I ask if that you send us all the photos you take!
Yes! There is a parking lot and garage located at the church that holds a certain capacity of cars, I recommend carpooling. It is on the corner of West End and and 20th Ave. You may NOT leave your car there overnight. We are not responsible for what happens to your car after the event. If you booked a hotel at the Hampton Inn or The Aerston, you can park in those lots and walk. It is less than a block.
TBD but I hope so :) We can walk to midtown or there are bars in the hotels.
Appetizers include spinach and artichoke dip, meatballs, and a salad. The main courses are a choice of grilled chicken or pork chop. Sides include green beans, mashed potatoes, and mac and cheese. Dessert includes three different flavors of wedding cake. There will be beer, liquor and wine. The bar will be open.