FAQs

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WHEN SHOULD I RSVP?

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Please RSVP by February 13th, 2027. If we do not receive your RSVP by that date, you will be automatically marked as "Not Attending." We will miss celebrating with you, but we must provide our venue with a final guest count within the time they have given us. Thank you for understanding!

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WHAT IS THE DRESS CODE?

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Dress to impress! Our wedding is Formal or Black Tie optional, meaning women should wear floor- or calf-length dresses or gowns (leg slits are perfectly acceptable) and men should wear suits or tuxedos.

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WHERE SHOULD I GO ONCE I ARRIVE AT THE PERRY LANE HOTEL?

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Please note that The Perry Lane Hotel consists of two buildings directly across from one another. The entire wedding (ceremony, cocktail hour, reception) will take place in the building with 257 posted above the entrance. Once you are inside, take the elevator up to the top floor.

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AM I ALLOWED TO BRING A PLUS ONE?

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Only the guests formally included on your wedding invitation will be accommodated. If you received a plus one, they will appear when you RSVP online. Similarly, if your invitation is addressed to your family (e.g., “The Bell Family”), each family member will appear when you RSVP online.

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ARE CHILDREN INVITED?

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While we love your little ones, this is primarily an adults-only occasion, except for close family members. If your child is invited, they will appear when you RSVP.

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ARE YOU HAVING A WELCOME PARTY?

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While we would love to host a Welcome Party for our guests, we will be having a more intimate Rehearsal Dinner for close family and the wedding party/their SOs only. If you are to attend the Rehearsal Dinner, you will see the option to accept or decline when you RSVP. Note: Rehearsal Dinner invitations will be sent with formal wedding invitations closer to the wedding date.

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WHAT TIME SHOULD I ARRIVE?

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Please arrive 30 minutes before the ceremony begins to allow time to find parking and your seat. The ceremony will begin at 5 PM, so plan to arrive by 4:30 PM. Once the ceremony begins, entrance to the terrace will not be granted until the ceremony is completed and the cocktail hour begins.

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WILL THERE BE AN OPEN BAR?

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Yes! The drinks are on Tonya and Doug, and the hangover is on you! If you are not staying downtown, please arrange transportation from the venue if you plan on drinking!