FAQs

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Is there a dress code?

Answer

We hope this is the perfect occasion to wear that outfit you've been waiting for an excuse to show off, the shoes that are eager to hit the dance floor, and anything that makes you feel your best! The official dress code is semi-formal attire. For men, a suit or dress shirt with nice slacks. For women, a cocktail dress, elegant jumpsuit, or dressy separates. Whatever you choose to wear, you'll look great ;)

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Are kids welcome?

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As much as we love your little ones, we will not be able to accommodate children outside of our immediate families at our wedding. All invited guests' names appear on the invitations. We appreciate your understanding and your efforts to make arrangements in advance!

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How will I know what to do during the ceremony?

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We will be participating in a marriage service, and not a full mass, so expect the ceremony to last about 30 minutes. Our programs will guide you through the order of the ceremony and provide important information. Priests at weddings will typically tell guests when to sit, stand, and kneel.

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Is there an open bar?

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Yes! Please drink responsibly and arrange safe transportation home/back to your hotel.

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Is there a hotel block?

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Yes, we will have a hotel block at The Mayo Hotel. Details regarding this can be found on the Accommodations page.

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Where do I park at the Mayo Hotel?

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If you’re attending the wedding but not staying overnight at The Mayo, we will cover your valet fee, please let valet know you're with the Ream/Halbach wedding. There is free street parking downtown Tulsa on the weekends if you find a convenient spot.

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What should I do after the ceremony until the cocktail hour begins at the Mayo Hotel?

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There’s a little break between the ceremony and cocktail hour - perfect for exploring! Tulsa has so many fantastic places to see, sip, and snack. Head to our Recommendations page for our favorite spots to check out nearby!