FAQs

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Is there a dress code?

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We'd love our family and friends to get dressed up with us! We are requesting cocktail attire, such as a nice dress or slacks and a button-up shirt. No jeans please :) Our venue is outdoors, and the ground is gravel/grass and hilly in some spots. We recommend wearing comfortable shoes rather than heels so you can dance with us throughout the night! Out of respect for the brides, please refrain from wearing white or dark green.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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We would love to include everyone in our special day, but due to limited capacity, only the people listed on the invitations are invited. Thanks for respecting our wishes!

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Are kids welcome?

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Unfortunately, we can only accommodate a limited number of people. We are restricting children to immediate family or special circumstances. Please reference your invitation to see if your children are invited. Come take a night off and celebrate with us!

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Are there places to stay nearby?

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There will be camping available for those who want to continue the party throughout the night with us! If you would like to camp, please bring your own camping gear or RV and arrive early to set up. We are required to be out by 10:00 the following morning. If camping is not your thing, view the travel tab for more information on our hotel block.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please arrive no later than 3:45 to park and be directed to the ceremony! If you plan on camping, arrive earlier to give yourself time to set up your campsite.

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by August 1st!

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What if I have a food allergy or dietary restriction?

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We will be serving Chipotle for dinner, so there will be vegetarian, vegan, and gluten-free options to choose from.

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Can I take photos or videos during the ceremony?

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Please refrain from taking photos or videos during the ceremony. We have a photographer that we trust will take amazing photos, and we do not want phones in the background. During the reception, feel free to use your phones, but we would also love for you to use the disposable cameras provided for some vintage shots!

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How can I be a good ally?

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Everyone who has been invited is an important part of our lives, and we would love to have you celebrate with us. However, if you are unable to put your politics or beliefs aside to support us on our special day as two gay women, we kindly ask you not to attend. This is a day celebrating love, and the last thing we want is to feel uncomfortable.