FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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March 14, 2026
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A Note From Morgan
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Loved Ones, For those who may not know, I identify as a nonbinary person. Meaning I don’t identify at either end of the binary gender system (neither man or women). I use they/them pronouns and everyone will be referring to me correctly on my wedding day. I’ve been identifying the same way for the last 10 years. Everyone has experience using they/them pronouns when referring to an individual whose gender you may not know. For instance, "It looks like someone lost their wallet" etc. More examples for myself Include: “Morgan looks great in a suit, aren’t they so handsome?” “I’ve known Morgan for x many years, how long have you known them?” “Wow you really can see how much they love Maddie” Please ensure to double check any written sentiments, speeches, or otherwise for language that refers to me correctly. FAQs about this FAQ: “What about adjectives?” - While I don’t identify with a specific gender I am still a masculine presenting person. In instances where you have to make a reference one way or the other, or can’t think of neutral term, I always prefer the masculine option. “Cat dad” “handsome” “guys” “gentleman” etc. “What if I mess up on accident?” - If you miss-speak, please just correct yourself in the moment. As in, “She- I mean- they…” There's no need for anyone’s long winded apologies and I do not want extra attention put on being misgendered at my wedding. Mistakes happen, all I ask is you're responsible for trying your best and fixing it yourself. “What if I just can’t get it right?” - Being invited to our wedding is a privilege and not an entitlement, so you do not need to show up if you can’t refer to me correctly on one of the biggest days of my life! Also, you have plenty of time to practice. Thank you all in advance for making me feel like myself and making me feel seen for who I am on this very important magical day. I love you all so much. - Morgan
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What do we call you as an engaged or married couple if we're not calling you a bride and groom?
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Morgan (they/them) and Maddie (she/her) would like names like: Not yet married - "Nearlyweds, to-be-weds, betrothed, affianced" Married - "Spouses, spousies, newlyweds, soulmates, MBFF (married best friends forever)"
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Can I bring a date?
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This is a small wedding so we won't have room for plus ones for all guests. Your invitation and RSVP will give you the scoop on who's invited. Please feel free to reach out if you have any questions and thanks for understanding!
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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Ridesharing is recommended for your convenience, but not required. Parking will be available along the street in the residential neighborhood. Please do not park in our driveway, or block anyone’s driveway. Spencer Way will be most convenient for parking, but parking along Horgan and Plainsfield Way will work as well if needed.