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September 19, 2025
Three Mile Bay, NY
#becomingmachia

Gillian & Joe

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What should I wear?

Answer

The short answer is to wear what you're comfortable in. The long answer is that the dress code for our wedding is semi-formal/cocktail attire. That generally means cocktail dresses, evening dresses, sundresses, casual suits, slacks, button-downs, and sports coats (ties or no ties) are all perfect for our wedding. No jeans please. Please note that the ceremony will be outdoors on grass.

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Can I bring my kids?

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To allow all wedding guests, including parents, a night of relaxation and uninhibited revelry, we respectfully ask that only named guests attend.

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Can I bring a guest/plus-one?

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We ask that only named guests attend, unless your invite specifies a guest.

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What is the weather like in the area?

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Typically, this time of year, the days are in the 60s and 70s and dropping into the 40s and 50s at night. But be prepared for anything!

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What time should I arrive for the ceremony?

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The ceremony is scheduled to start at 4:00, and we ask that guests arrive up to 30 minutes early to get a seat and maybe grab a drink at the bar!

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Have you reserved blocks of rooms at one or more hotels?

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Please check the "Travel" section for more details on room blocks!

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by August 15, 2025!

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If you have any other questions we did not cover, please reach out!

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Thank you!

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