FAQs & Recommendations

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When should I rsvp by?

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We kindly ask that you RSVP by March 31, 2025 so we can finalize our plans. You can RSVP on this website. If we don't hear from you by then, we'll have to mark you down as not attending. Tough love, baby!

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Are you registered?

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We're registered at Zola, Crate & Barrel, and Pottery Barn. You can find all the details on our Registry page here on the website. Thank you for thinking of us!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Totally! We've reserved room blocks at two nearby hotels for your convenience. Be sure to book by April 8, 2025 to take advantage of the special rates. You can find booking links and more details on the "Travel & Accommodations" page of this website.

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Can I bring a date?

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Your invitation will specify if you’re welcome to bring a guest. If you’re unsure or have questions, feel free to reach out—we’d love to clarify!

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Are children allowed?

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While we love your little ones, we’re keeping our celebration adults-only, with the exception of children in our family or who are part of the wedding. We welcome you to take the opportunity to let loose and enjoy a night off—on us! If you’re traveling from far away and interested in local childcare for the evening, we’d be happy to provide some pre-vetted options. Just let us know. Thank you for understanding!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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The ceremony will begin promptly at 5:30 pm, so we recommend arriving 15-20 minutes early to get settled and find your seat. Parking is available in the lot across from Merrimon-Wynne starting at 5:00 pm, should you choose to drive.

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Will there be an open bar?

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What, you think we're messing around? We'll have a fully stocked bar with wine, beer, cocktails, and non-alcoholic options. Come thirsty and ready to raise your glasses!

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Will Kingsley be there?

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We wish. He'd make the whole party about himself, though.

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What should I do if I have dietary restrictions?

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We want everyone to enjoy the meal! When you RSVP, you’ll have the opportunity to let us know about any dietary restrictions or preferences.

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Will any transportation be provided?

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We’ll have The Great Raleigh Trolley—a charming vintage-style trolley—at the end of the reception to shuttle guests from the venue to the after-party. The trolley will make stops near both hotels where we’ve reserved room blocks, so you can celebrate the night away worry-free! We aren’t providing shuttle services from the hotels to the ceremony. The venue is conveniently located, so we recommend driving, carpooling, or using rideshare services like Uber or Lyft to keep things simple.

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Can I wear my wedding dress?

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No matter what Carolyn Riehl (Mother of the Bride) says, please refrain from wearing your wedding dress.