FAQs

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, there will be parking available in front of the building!

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We kindly request that guests do not take photos during the event. We have professional photographers to capture every moment so we can unplug and enjoy!

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Can we vape or smoke on the property?

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Our venue has a strict smoking and vaping policy. A designated area is available for guests who wish to smoke or vape. As this is a privately owned botanical garden, guests who do not follow this policy will be asked to leave the property.

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What are the rules for the venue?

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A Secret Garden Rules: 1. Smoking and vaping are permitted only in the designated area 2. Outside beverages are not allowed 3. Glass containers are prohibited in the gardens 4. THC products are strictly forbidden While we want everyone to be a part of our big day, failure to follow our venue's rules will result in you being asked to leave.

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Is this a family friendly event?

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Our wedding celebration is designed to be a delightful experience for guests of all ages. We'll have thoughtfully prepared activity bags to keep children entertained, along with family-friendly movies and board games. Our DJ will carefully select music with clean lyrics, ensuring a comfortable atmosphere for everyone. We kindly request that all guests maintain a respectful environment by avoiding inappropriate language.

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What is for dinner?

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We are SO excited for this, it is DELICIOUS! Our caterer is bringing a taste of Italy with Tuscan ‘Marry Me’ Chicken in a rich sun‑dried tomato cream sauce. Dinner will be served with Caesar salad, creamy pasta, roasted asparagus, and herb focaccia bread paired with a garlic‑herb dipping oil. If you have any dietary restrictions and are unable to eat this, please let us know and we will make sure we have food available for everyone! This meal will contain: wheat, egg, dairy, fish (anchovies in salad dressing), and traces of soy.

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What is the dress code?

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Garden Dressy-Casual We’d love for the overall vibe to feel soft, romantic, and nature‑friendly. Think comfortable outfits you’d wear to a nice outdoor gathering—nothing overly formal. For women: Floral or pastel midi/maxi dresses or any dressy‑casual outfit that feels pretty and comfortable. Since this is a family‑friendly event, we kindly ask that outfits lean on the modest side while still including your personal style. For men: Nice jeans or slacks paired with a polo or button‑down shirt. Blazers or jackets are optional, totally up to you! The ceremony will be held outdoors in the botanical garden, with the reception indoors. Missouri weather in early October can vary, so feel free to bring a light layer. We’ll also have fans, A/C units, or heaters available depending on the temperature. Most importantly, we want everyone to feel comfortable, confident, and themselves while enjoying the day with us.