FAQs
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What time should I arrive?
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The ceremony will begin promptly at 3:30 PM. Please be sure to arrive with enough time to find parking comfortably, walk to the ceremony space, get to know soon to be family, and find a comfortable seat to be witness of this great event.
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What is the dress code?
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We’d love to see our family and friends dressed up for a big day. The dress code is black tie/formal attire. Ladies can wear floor length formal dresses and gentlemen can wear a suit and tie. Do not wear jeans or other related casual wear. Do not wear any excessive pieces or statement like accessories like hats or lots of “bling”. We want everyone dressed comfortable in their best. Also refrain from wearing any shade of white, ivory, cream, off-white, pearl, or any other closely white related colors. Please refer to the “attire inspiration” tab for further ideas
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Can I bring a plus one?
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Due to wanting our wedding to be an intimate and personal event, we are only able to accommodate those guest formally invited on your Wedding invitation. If you received a plus one they will appear under your name when you RSVP. Thank you for understanding!
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Are children invited?
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It will specify in your RSVP the number of individuals, including children that are invited to the wedding. If it does not specify under your invitation, we encourage you to use this night as a “night out”. Please be warned that there will be music with adult language that WILL NOT be censored playing and alcohol being served at the wedding.
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Why do you have double or repeat items on your registry? (For example, 2 different types of espresso makers)
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The reason for the repeat items is because we wanted to give options of things we love that may be at different price points. For example, Dayami LOVES both of the pressure cookers that are on the registry, but there may be a chance that one happens to go on sale giving you the guest the opportunity to purchase it much more economically. Please DO NOT get both. We are grateful for everything and anything you may get us, but most importantly we are grateful for your presence on our big day.
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Where is the ceremony and reception being held?
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The wedding ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception are all happening at the Curtiss Mansion. The ceremony and reception will be outside on a brick foundation while the cocktail hour will be held inside. Please wear the proper shoes ladies!
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Can I take photos?
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In order for our guest to be fully present with us during one of the most special moments of our lives, we are having an “unplugged” ceremony. We will have a professional photographer and videographer who will capture those special moments and we would be upset if any well intentioned guest phones are there to block their views. We will, of course, share our photos with you afterwards. After the ceremony, we would love for you to capture a special day and encourage you to snap away!
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What if I don’t RSVP in time?
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Unfortunately, we will not be able to accommodate you if you RSVP late. We will need to provide our vendors and the venue an exact discount by a certain date. Well we will send out reminders, as well as send out invitations early, please be sure to RSVP as soon as possible.