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Catholic Wedding Mass

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A Catholic wedding Mass is longer than some wedding ceremonies because it consists not only of the vows, but also the entirety of the Mass. The Mass is integral to our faith as Catholics because during it, the Eucharist is transformed into the Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity of Jesus Christ under the appearance of bread and wine. This is the source and summit of our faith, and it is a great joy to receive the Lord in this way! Because of how important the Eucharist is to Catholics, it is reserved for those who fully believe, uphold, and love the truth that it is the Body and Blood of Jesus. Thus, practicing Catholics in a state of grace may receive the Eucharist during our wedding Mass. We ask that our non-Catholic and non-practicing friends come forward to receive a blessing from our priest if they desire or stay in their seats and pray for us and our marriage. This is not an act of gatekeeping the Eucharist by the Catholic Church, but a reservation of the Eucharist for those who fully believe it is the Body and Blood of our Lord. Thank you for sharing this sacred moment with us!

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Feast of the Immaculate Heart of Mary

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June 28, 2025 is the Feast of the Immaculate Heart of Mary! Check out these articles to learn more about Mary's Immaculate Heart and why we honor it! https://faith.nd.edu/s/1210/faith/interior.aspx?sid=1210&gid=609&calcid=24281&calpgid=10813&pgid=25146&crid=0 https://www.ewtn.com/catholicism/seasons-and-feast-days/immaculate-heart-of-mary-14358 Sacred Heart of Jesus... have mercy on us! Immaculate Heart of Mary... pray for us!

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How do I RSVP?

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Please click the RSVP tab on this website, which will be active after formal invitations are sent out!

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP no later than May 28, 2025! Any unanswered RSVPs will be counted as a “No.”

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Is there a dress code?

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Cocktail attire. For Mass, we will be in a sacred space with the Blessed Sacrament present. Please be mindful of covering your shoulders (shawl or light cardigan). Shorts, t-shirts, jeans, short skirts/dresses, hats and other casual attire are not appropriate. Thank you for your understanding! The wedding party will be wearing Blushing Pink.

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Where do I send gifts?

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We are so beyond grateful for everyone's love and support during this time! The biggest gift we can ask for right now is your prayers as we prepare to receive and enter into this sacrament! If you are purchasing a gift off of our registry, we ask you to please send it to the address linked to the registry. Please reach out if you are unable to find it and we will send it to you! Thank you so much!

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Will the wedding be held indoors or outdoors?

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Both the ceremony and reception will be held indoors.

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Where should I park?

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There is a large lot right in front of both the church and the reception venue with plenty of parking. A note from the Marriott: Parking is available at the hotel. Overnight guests staying and parking in the hotel lot will be charged an overnight parking rate of $10.00 per vehicle, per night. Any Event/Function attendees who are not staying overnight will not be required to pay the overnight parking fee. Parking fees are not subject to service charge to tax. (Parking rates are subject to change without notice).

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Can I bring a plus one/kids?

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All are more than welcome to the CEREMONY! However, as much as we would love every single person who has walked with us both individually and as a couple to be at the RECEPTION, our venue does have a max capacity. We ask that you bring a plus one or your kids only if they are included in your invitation. Thank you for your understanding!

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We kindly ask that no photos be taken during Mass. We would love for all guests to be completely present and for your beautiful faces to be seen in the photos when they come out! Our hired professionals will be doing the photo-taking during this time. Please focus on praying for us during Mass instead :)

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Dietary Restrictions

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Your RSVP has an option to submit any dietary restrictions. Please be as specific as possible so we can accommodate you to the best of our ability.

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Further Questions

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If you have any additional questions before the big day that are not addressed here, please do not hesitate to reach out to us! You can email us at louandluwedding@gmail.com or text/call us. If any important questions arise on the day of the wedding, feel free to track down one of our lovely bridesmaids or dashing groomsmen! We are here to assist in any way we can, and we are SO excited to celebrate with everyone!!