FAQs

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Can I bring a date or +1 ?

Answer

If we have reserved a plus-one for you, it will be specified when you RSVP through our website. Although we would love to offer a plus one to all guests, we have a strict guest list to meet our venue capacity and budget restrictions. We appreciate your understanding and if you have any questions or concerns, please reach out!

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Are kids allowed?

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Due to venue capacity restrictions, we ask that only children that have been part of our story attend. Please use this as an opportunity to take the evening away from your children and enjoy the party with us! If your children are invited they will be named. If you aren’t sure or have any concerns please reach out!

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What time should I arrive?

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The ceremony will begin promptly at 3:30 pm. Please arrive at least 15 minutes prior to the ceremony to give yourself plenty of time to park and find a seat.

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Is there a dress code?

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We want you to be comfortable at our wedding. The dress code is dressy casual attire. For this time of year in Iowa, we suggest the following attire: Women: sundresses, lightweight separates, sweaters, cardigans and flats or wedge heels. Men: light dress shirt with khaki or other lightweight slacks; jackets and ties optional. Jeans are okay!

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Is there parking at the venue?

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Yes, there is a parking lot at the venue. However, space is still limited so carpooling would be best!

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Can we bring our own drinks?

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Due to venue restrictions and insurance rules, absolutely NO outside alcohol is permitted on the Hidden Tower grounds (This includes drinking out of a cooler in your vehicle parked in the parking lot). Don't worry! There is a bar in the reception hall! :)

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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We ask that you RSVP no later than September 1st, 2026

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What should I do if I can't make it?

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You will be dearly missed. If you can't make it to the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP " will NOT attend " so that we can plan accordingly. If your RSVP status changes, you can update your response as necessary.

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I still have questions, what is the best way to contact you?

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Please email paytonjarvis98@gmail.com or call/text 319-470-6630 for any further questions.