Yes and no. If your options are: come with the kids or don't come at all, then come with the kids! We are having a very small wedding, so you're very important to us. We love your kids, but we also want to have an adult party. We're trying to find the happy medium with this approach. We have a contact at Care.com who is going to help us line up top babysitters in Portland on an as-needed basis. We are also planning to send our own kids to bed at 9pm so we can party on. If you are bringing kids, please just make sure to indicate that with your RSVP.