We love your kids—we really do. Please put them on your R.S.V.P.
Yes, please let The Kendall know what time you are thinking of heading back to your room.
If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
Cocktail, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.