Ironically, we shared mutual friends during our teenage years, as well as adulthood, and while we often crossed paths at events, we never formally connected. (fun fact: we were paired up together one time at a game night party but still did not connect). In November 2015, both of us were attending a business meeting at Apron’s Restaurant. I guess you could call it fate because this was when we finally had an opportunity to say, “hello”. Now here’s where the story varies slightly lol. Lisa’s Story - I arrived at the restaurant and a mutual friend was seated with Joel. He extended an invitation for me to come sit with them and asked if Joel and I knew one another and quickly introduced us. Our mutual friend left the table, leaving us to chat about small things. I eventually heard Joel’s name being called, and to my surprise, he was one of the featured speakers. I thought to myself, ok he’s good looking and speaks well! LOL! We remained friends and didn't officially become a couple until August 2016. Joel’s Story - I noticed Lisa sitting at a table by herself like she needed company and I thought to myself, wow she's beautiful. I asked if I could have a seat and we talked briefly getting to know one another. Over time, a friendship developed and in August 2016, I asked her to be my lady. So who do you think has the best memory about our first meeting? Was Lisa really sitting at the table looking lonely? Hmmmmm Ultimately, both perspectives contribute to the richness of our shared story, highlighting different aspects of that memorable encounter.