No. There will be no shuttle service to and from the hotels to the ceremony/reception. However, the ceremony is only about 20-30 minutes from each of the hotels.
We love your kids - we really do! But we want our wedding to be your night off.
If your invitation says "and guest" then yes, please feel free to bring a date.
Cocktail, please. But we want you to feel comfortable. if those heels are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.