We met playing softball but really got to know each other when we were partnered up for tennis. We stayed friends for a while, bantering back and forth over the net and on the field. Rich lent Lindsey a book (Ender's Game), and as the reader she is, devoured it in a couple of days. We bonded over that book and the ensuing movie, and also over a TV show that Rich happened to have (Chuck) that Lindsey had loved in college.