FAQs

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Where should we book a room?

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You’ll find a list of recommended accommodations in the Travel section of this website. We strongly suggest booking your stay as soon as possible — late September is a busy time of year in this area, and hotels fill up quickly. Once you’ve booked, please let us know where you’ll be staying so we can keep everything organized for the weekend. And if you run into any issues or need help, we’re always here.

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Are children allowed?

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While we love your little ones, our venue has limited capacity, so we are planning an adults‑only celebration. However, we know some of our guests will be traveling long distances with their families. If you’re coming from outside New England and need to bring your children, please contact us — we’ll do our best to help where we can. Here’s a quick list of kid‑friendly things to do near the wedding venue on Sunday (also listed in the "Things to do" section): 🐋 Whaling Museum — open Sundays, super fun for kids https://www.whalingmuseum.org/ 🐘 Buttonwood Park Zoo — open Sundays https://www.bpzoo.org/ 🌊 Fort Taber Park — beach + big open space https://explorenewbedford.org/listings/activities-and-entertainment/fort-taber-fort-rodman-park/ 🚶‍♂️ Harbor Walk — easy stroll + boats https://www.savebuzzardsbay.org/places-to-go/new-bedford-harbor-walk/ 🎨 Art Museum — open Sundays https://newbedfordart.org/ 🎮 PLAY Arcade — open Sundays, great indoor option with retro games + kid‑friendly food (All ages UNTIL 8pm - 21+ after 8pm) https://www.playarcadenb.com/ 🧩 Mass Escape (Escape Rooms) — open Sundays, best for older kids/teens; fun group activity https://www.massescaperoom.com/ 🍦 Treats nearby: Acushnet Creamery, Brick Pizzeria, DNB Burgers All of these spots are approximately 5–10 minutes from the Rotch‑Jones‑Duff House.

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What’s the dress code?

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Our celebration is semi‑formal. Think cocktail dresses, dress shirts, suits, or anything that feels polished but comfortable for an early fall New England evening.

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What time should we arrive?

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Please plan to arrive about 15 minutes before the ceremony so you can park, get settled, and find your seat. We’ll begin right on time.

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What will the weather be like?

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September on the Massachusetts coast is usually mild and beautiful, with temperatures typically in the 60s–70s. Evenings can get cooler, so a light layer is a good idea.

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Can I bring a plus‑one?

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Your invitation will indicate whether a plus‑one has been included. If you’re unsure, feel free to ask — we’re happy to clarify.

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Is the ceremony and reception at the same location?

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Yes! Both the ceremony and reception will take place at the Rotch‑Jones‑Duff House. No need to travel between venues.

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Is there parking at the venue?

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Official answer coming soon!

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What is there to do in the area?

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We’ve put together a list of family‑friendly and adult‑friendly things to do near the venue — all within 5–10 minutes. You’ll find it in the "Things To Do" section.

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Will food and drinks be served?

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Yes — we’ll be serving a full dinner along with drinks, dessert, and plenty of celebration.

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What if I have dietary restrictions or food allergies?

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Just let us know when you RSVP. We’ll make sure you’re taken care of.

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Are you registered anywhere?

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Having you with us is what matters most. Your presence is the most meaningful gift we could receive. Our home already has everything it needs to function like a semi‑responsible adult household. Instead of a traditional registry, if you’d still like to gift something, we’d be thrilled with contributions to our future honeymoon (details coming once we finally pick a destination) or our home‑improvement fund. Your presence truly is the best gift… but upgrades and adventures are pretty great too. You can check out the "Registry" section of this website.

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I have a question that isn’t answered here.

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Send us a text anytime and we’ll get back to you. We’ll also update this section as we go, since chances are someone else may be wondering the same thing.