FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

Responses should be returned by April 18th, 2026.

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Is there a dress code?

Answer

For dress code and clothing suggestions, please see the "Attire" webpage from the menu above.

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Can I bring a date or additional guest?

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Any additional guests or plus-ones have been specifically named on the RSVP card. Space is limited, so please do not bring an additional guest unless your RSVP card or link has one listed.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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For dress code and clothing suggestions, please see the "Travel" webpage from the menu above.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Food allergies or significant dietary restrictions (vegetarian, vegan, etc.) should be disclosed in the RSVP response. We will reach to anyone who specifies a dietary need on their RSVP. If you have any additional concerns, you may always reach out to Lindsey and Kai.

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How do I contact Lindsey and Kai?

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Additional questions may be emailed to shaferandmills@gmail.com or texted to Lindsey at (805) 455-9141. Your call if very important to us! Please text first before calling. If you do call and Lindsey doesn't pick-up, leave a voicemail so we know to call you back.