FAQs

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Where will the ceremony and reception be?

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The ceremony and reception will be located at The Elia, 254 N Front St suite 100, Wilmington, NC 28401. Both the ceremony and reception will be held fully indoors in a beautifully decorated, heated venue—perfect for our December celebration. You can enjoy the warmth and holiday ambiance inside! *North Carolina weather is fairly unpredictible this time of year so please plan for warm or cold outside conditions*

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What time should I arrive?

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You are encouraged to arrive 30 minutes prior to the ceremony start time (~3:30 PM). Each guest (21+) will be offered a glass of champagne to enjoy upon arrival.

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Where should I park?

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There is ample street parking around the venue, two large parking lots a block away: River Place Parking Lot (14 Grace St, Wilmington, NC 28401) + Water Street Parking Deck (210 N Water St, Wilmington, NC 28401) and the local hotels also offer onsite parking as well. The venue is within walking distance from the hotels listed on the website!

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What should I wear?

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Our wedding will be formal attire with a festive, holiday-inspired touch — think timeless elegance with winter magic. Women are encouraged to wear floor-length gowns or formal alternatives in rich, luxurious fabrics (silk, velvet, chiffon, satin). Jewel tones, metallics, and deep neutrals are all beautiful choices. Examples: An emerald green satin gown or a navy pant suit with sparkly accessories. Kindly avoid white or off-white tones, as they are designated for the bride. Men should wear a suit and tie — a festive pocket square or tie is welcome. Examples: A black or a navy suit with a patterned pocket square, or a charcoal suit with a deep green tie.

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Is black okay?

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Yes — black is timeless and formal, especially for an evening winter wedding.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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If your invitation is addressed to you and a guest, we warmly welcome your plus one to join the celebration! If no plus one is mentioned, we kindly ask that you attend solo so we can accommodate all our guests comfortably.

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Are kids invited?

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Our wedding celebration will be an adults-only event, with the exception of immediate family members. We appreciate your understanding and look forward to celebrating together!

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Will there be food options for dietary restrictions?

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Yes — please note any dietary restrictions when you RSVP, and we’ll do our best to accommodate.

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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We will have a professional photographer capturing the day. We kindly ask for an unplugged ceremony.

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Gifts

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We have a registry with items we’ll cherish, and we also warmly welcome contributions toward our honeymoon fund or future home. Whatever feels right to you is deeply appreciated.