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November 22, 2025
Ruffin, NC

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Are children invited to the wedding ceremony and reception?

Answer

As much as we adore your kids, we ask that the wedding ceremony is an adult-centered ceremony and hope you’ll enjoy a night off to celebrate with us. If your RSVP does not include your children we ask that you take the time with just you and your spouse to enjoy a night off celebrating with us. Children involved in the ceremony as well as children in the family from out of town are welcome! For family members coming from out of town who choose to bring their children, we kindly ask that any little ones be kept calm and quiet so everyone can enjoy the moment with us!! If needed, feel free to step inside the barn (as we plan to get married outside on the patio)—we completely understand if you need to step away. Thank you so much for helping us keep this part of the day meaningful and memorable!

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Can I bring a plus one?

Answer

We’re keeping our celebration intimate and hope you understand that we can only accommodate guests who are named on the invitation. Thank you for your support!

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Will the ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?

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Weather permitting, our ceremony will be outdoors, with the reception following indoors. We recommend dressing according to the weather in November - its North Carolina it could be warm or cool ;)

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What time should I arrive?

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Please arrive at least 30 minutes before the ceremony is scheduled to begin so you can be seated and settled before we walk down the aisle.

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Is there parking available?

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Yes! There is free parking at the venue [or nearby lots]. We'll have signs and maybe a parking attendant to help direct you.

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What happens after the ceremony?

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After the ceremony, please join us for drinks, dinner, games/dancing! All events will take place at the same location.

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What is the dress code?

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We ask that our guest dress formal and come looking nice! No Jeans!!! We want you to look nice and pretty for the pictures! :)

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