We love your kids—we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off! We ask that you kindly leave the kids at home.
Cocktail-ish, tie optional. We want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose. Not mad at a tasteful Hawaiian shirt too ;)
If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.