FAQs

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Can we bring our little ones?

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As much as we adore the little ones in our lives, our wedding will be an adults-only celebration. Due to venue capacity limitations and the nature of our event, including an open bar, guests must be 21 or older to attend unless otherwise specified on your invitation. We understand that arranging childcare can require extra planning, and we truly appreciate your understanding. We hope this allows parents and guardians to relax, celebrate, and enjoy a fun night out with us!

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What is the dress code?

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Dress Code: Black Tie Formal We are so excited to celebrate with you! As you plan your attire, we kindly ask that guests refrain from wearing white, ivory, cream, champagne, or similar shades. We promise this is our one and only wedding fashion request—thank you for helping keep the spotlight on the bride! If you do not know what a black tie formal is, here are some examples! https://cl-experience.com/blogs/news/what-does-formal-or-black-tie-really-mean

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Can I bring a plus one?

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As much as we would love to celebrate with everyone, our venue has a limited capacity. If your invitation includes a plus one, we would be delighted to welcome your guest! If a plus one is not listed on your invitation, we kindly ask that you attend solo and help us keep our guest count accurate. Thank you for understanding and helping us make room for all of our loved ones on our special day! (In other words, please don't try to sneak anyone in; we promise we're better at counting than we are at wedding planning!)

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How do I RSVP?

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It's easy! You can RSVP in whichever way is most convenient for you. Simply click the RSVP button on our website to respond online, or complete and return the RSVP card included with your invitation. Whether you choose to RSVP online or by mail, we can't wait to hear from you and celebrate together!

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by March 26, 2027. We love you all, but wedding planning comes with enough chasing already! If we haven't received your RSVP by the deadline, we'll assume you're unable to attend and will miss celebrating with us. Thank you for responding on time and helping us finalize our plans.

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Will there be Photography and Videography?

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Yes! With Lily being a photographer, having an incredible photo and video team was a top priority. To ensure they can capture every special moment without distractions, we will be having an unplugged ceremony. We kindly ask that guests put away their phones, cameras, and other devices and simply enjoy being present with us. Don't worry—our photographers and videographers will be there to capture all the memories for everyone to enjoy afterward! (Fair warning: we've given them full creative freedom to get the perfect shot, so if you see someone lying in the aisle or climbing into a bush, they're probably just doing their job!)

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What if I need to change my RSVP?

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Absolutely! If your plans change, please reach out to the Groom, and he will help update your RSVP. You can find his number listed at the top of this page! Why the Groom? Because wedding planning is stressful enough, and we're doing our best to protect the Bride from one more thing landing on her to-do list. Consider him the official RSVP manager and first line of communication for any attendance changes. We appreciate your help in keeping the Bride's stress levels at a minimum!