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What is the dress code?

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Semi-Formal/Cocktail. Suits and dresses are welcome, but so are slacks and jackets. Keep in mind, this is taking place in a field on a decommissioned horse farm, so don't feel the need to wear fancy shoes!

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What time should we arrive to the ceremony?

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Our ceremony will begin promptly at 3pm, so please arrive by 2:45 at the latest so as not to interrupt the ceremony. If you do arrive late please be respectful and observe from afar.

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Where is the wedding?

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Our ceremony will take place at a decommissioned horse farm at 315 Mills Rd in North Salem, NY. Our "reception" will take place at the same location.

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Are children welcome?

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This one is up to you! Your children are welcome, but if you'd rather make it a date night and leave them at home feel free.

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What is the timeline?

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Our ceremony begins at 3pm, so please arrive before or at the latest by 2:45pm. Drinks will be available after the ceremony, and food trucks will arrive at 4pm. There will be a send off at 7:00pm and the party will come to an end.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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We're trying to keep this event intimate, so you're invitation will specify all the invited parties. No plus ones.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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We have multiple hotel recommendations on the travel section of our website for those coming from out of town. We haven't booked any room blocks, these are simply recommended hotels in the area. All of them are within 20 minutes of the venue.

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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We will not have a shuttle service from the hotels to the venue. We highly recommend carpooling or renting a car. There aren't usually many Uber's available in North Salem so we strongly suggest carpooling if you're planning on drinking.

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Is there parking at the venue?

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There is ample parking at the venue, and there will be signs directing you where to go.

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Are you registered? Where?

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As we've already lived together for a while, we've gathered many of the traditional home essentials. Instead of household gifts, we would be incredibly grateful for any contributions towards our future. Both our "house fund" and "honeymoon fund" can be found on the registry tab of this website. For those who would rather contribute something material, we do have a small registry with Crate&Barrel which can be found by searching our names on Crate&Barrel's website, or at the link on the registry tab of this website. Your generosity, in whatever form, will help us build a foundation for the next chapter of our life together.

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