FAQs
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Am I invited to the ceremony?
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We are having a very small ceremony with only immediate family on Halloween. We will be adding ceremony photos to the website once we receive them.
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What is the dress code? What should I wear?
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Costumes! In the spirit of Halloween, we highly encourage guests to wear costumes. Your costume can be as simple or complex as desired - just have fun with it!
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What are the bride and groom wearing?
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Lilly and Zach will be dressed up as Morticia and Gomez Addams from the Addams Family. We politely ask others to avoid repeating this costume idea.
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Will the reception be indoors or outdoors?
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Indoors. However, parking is outside and not attached to the building.
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Where should I park?
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The Grand Banquet Hall is located on Olive St E and 2nd St S. Free open air parking lots are available across 2nd St S. There is free street parking around the venue. Additionally, there is a paid parking ramp located at Commercial St and 2nd St N three blocks away. For more detailed information, you can find a link to Stillwater's downtown parking guide under "Things to Do". Please stay safe and default to a ride service or carpooling if you plan to drink.
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When is the RSVP deadline?
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Please RSVP by October 5th.
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Can I bring my kids?
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We kindly request no children under the age of 16. Thank you for your understanding.
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Can I bring a plus one?
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Yes! Please include them when you RSVP.
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Do you have a hotel block for guests? Which hotels should I stay at?
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We have not organized a hotel block but nearby hotel recommendations can be found on the Hotels page.
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Will it be an open bar?
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Yes!
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What kind of food and drink will be served during the cocktail hour and reception?
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We will have a buffet dinner at the reception with Caprese chicken, Italian meatballs, cavatappi pasta with pesto cream & vodka sauces, Caesar salad, and garlic ciabatta bread. The open bar will have beer, wine, cocktails, Pepsi products, and juice.
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I have dietary restrictions/allergies. How should I communicate that to you?
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Please communicate any dietary restrictions via the RSVP.