FAQs
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Plus-Ones
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Brode and I did our best to be mindful of guests who may need a plus one. If you do not see a plus-one option on your RSVP and you need one, please text Lilly at 682-269-5046. Unfortunately, if a guest is not included on your RSVP and we are not notified in advance, we will not be able to accommodate them with a seat or dinner plate. We kindly ask that you please be thoughtful and selective when choosing your plus one.
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Children
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While we absolutely love kids and are so excited to have the little ones in our wedding party celebrate with us, we kindly ask that all other guests refrain from bringing children under 18. You’ll notice that children were not included on the RSVPs—this was intentional, as we hope our special night can be enjoyable and stress-free for everyone involved. Thank you so much for understanding!
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What should I wear?
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Attire: Semi-formal or cocktail attire! Ladies: Please wear any dress or nice skirt that makes you feel your most beautiful! Bright pastels and our wedding colors (red and pink) are encouraged, but not mandatory. Gentlemen: Please wear a suit, or dress pants with a blazer or nice collared shirt. Bright pastels and our wedding colors (red and pink) are encouraged, but not mandatory.
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How early should I arrive?
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Please arrive anywhere from 45 to 30 minutes before the ceremony begins. FYI the ceremony starts at 5:30!
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Will this be an outdoor wedding?
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Simple answer: Yes! We’re hoping for beautiful spring weather, but please be prepared to be flexible with attire and the ceremony location. If it rains, the reception will still take place under the outdoor reception tent, and the ceremony will be moved indoors.
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Do I need to bring a gift or a card?
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Please don’t feel obligated to give us anything—your presence means the most to us! However, we’ll cherish any gifts, cards, or advice you choose to give. For those who prefer to send a gift, our registry (with our address included) is linked here on our wedding website.
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Will the ceremony and reception be held at different places?
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Both the ceremony and reception will be held at Clark Gardens.
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What is the RSVP deadline?
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The official RSVP deadline will be March 15th, 2026.
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How do I report dietary restrictions?
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Please text Lilly with any and all dietary restrictions as we want to be as accommodating as possible! We will be catering dairy and gluten free options.
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What food should I expect? Will there be a bar?
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Food: We will be catering fajitas and all the trappings that go along with it! During cocktail hour, we will serve a delicious guacamole and salsa bar. Drinks: We will provide water and lemonade as our non-alcoholic beverages. Please also enjoy Brode and Lilly’s signature alcoholic beverages from the bar, or a selection of beer and wine.