AVL airport is the most convenient and will require the lease amount of travel
You do not NEED a car, the hotels are very close to the venue and there are ubers in the area. However, we recommend renting a car if you plan to do any hiking or exploring of the greater Asheville area.
We are lucky to have lot of kids in our lives. We invited you with your kids because we love them!! We would love to have them there, however we want you to do what works best for you. The hotel block at the courtyard Marriot is walking distance to the venue. We also plan to have the groom suite, which is in the event space, cleared out so kids can escape if they need to step away from the dancing (the groom suite has a couch, TV and Foosball). We would also happily do our best to help research babysitters in the area if you would rather leave your little ones at the hotel with a babysitter. We're happy to do what we can to help make this a fun family weekend, just ask us and we'll do our best to help :)
If you are staying in the hotels they are a short walk, 0.1 miles, from the venue. If you are staying in an air bnb there are ubers/lyfts in the area. Driving and parking is an option, but please note the parking is limited at the venue and it is a public parking lot, so we will not be able to predict how quickly it might fill up.