FAQs

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Where is the venue?

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The venue is in San Marcos, CA at Twin Oaks Wedding Venue

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What is the dress code?

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We encourage all guests to be wearing semi-formal or dressy casual. This can look like a mix of dressy and casual attire. Options for women can be, wearing below-the-knee dresses, skirts, dressy separates, or pantsuits. Some options for men can be, wearing dress shirts and slacks with or without a tie. Please no jeans

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When should I RSVP by?

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Invitations will be sent out in February 2026. Once you have received yours, please kindly RSVP by May 17, 2026! We need to give a final head count to vendors and the venue. If we don’t hear from you and your party by May 17, 2026 it will be marked as a no.

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Can I bring a date?

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Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guests who are formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you received a plus one, their name will appear under your name when you RSVP. Thank you so much for understanding!

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Are kids welcome?

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We love your little ones! However, we have decided to keep our wedding and reception an adults-only event with the exception of our wedding party. We encourage you to use this evening as a date night!

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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There is limited parking on site. Please make accommodations ahead of time if you choose to drink!

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Can I take pictures?

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We are having an "unplugged ceremony". This means no phones or cameras. The greatest gift you can give us is being fully present as we say "I do". We have hired professionals to capture this moment for us. We promise to share our photos as soon as we receive them. After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos and videos as you'd like!--Please share those with us!

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Will the wedding take place indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony and cocktail hour will be held outside. There are some shaded areas. The reception is also outside and will be covered.

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What should I do if I can't make it?

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You will be missed! If you cannot attend our wedding, please indicate your this on our RSVP tab so we can plan accordingly.

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Will there be a bar?

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Yes! Beer, wine, mixed drinks, and non alcoholic beverages are on us-the hangover is on you! Please drink responsibly, and plan transportation accordingly.

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Can I bring my own adult beverages?

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We will be supplying alcohol and have bartending services who will be handling the beverages. Due to venue policy and regulations, you are not allowed to bring any other alcoholic beverages onto the premises.

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Can I smoke/vape?

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Due to venue guidelines and regulations, there is a strict no weed, vape, and cigar policy. If you choose to participate in any of these, security will escort you out of the wedding and you will pay a fine. Thank you for understanding.

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What time should I arrive?

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TBD