FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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To help us with our planning, please RSVP to the events listed as soon as possible. However, the deadline is November 1st, 2025. If we do not receive your RSVP by this date, we will mark you as "not attending". As much as we would love to make exceptions, we need to provide our venue with a total guest count in a timely manner. We hope you can understand.
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What is the dress code?
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The bride and groom kindly request that guests dress in dark/deep neutrals in the following colors: black, dark blues, browns, warm/dark grey. Please dress in a semi-formal attire, meaning women should wear mid length to floor length dresses, skirts, or pantsuits and men should wear dress shirts and pants, dinner-jackets optional. Click on our "Dress Code" tab for inspiration!
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Doors open at 1:30pm and the ceremony will begin promptly at 2pm. Please be aware that the church parking lot has limited spaces. There are spots available on side streets but you may have to do some walking. With this in mind, we recommend arriving 20 minutes or more before the ceremony begins. The processional will begin, God-willing, at 2pm. Everyone should be seated by this time as doors will close and no entrance will be granted. On that note, the church is a smaller building without a lobby and fewer pews so plan accordingly if you want seats closer to the altar. If you do choose to arrive early, there will be a live instrumentalist for your entertainment as you wait for the ceremony to begin.
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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As listed above, parking is limited at both the reception and the ceremony. There is street parking available around the church and other parking lots in the vicinity of the restaurant, however you may have to do some walking.
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Can I take photos during the ceremony?
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We ask that you kindly put your phones and cameras away during the ceremony as we want you all to be present with us in this moment, especially during the processional (as the wedding party walks down the isle). We have a professional photographer and videographer capturing the ceremony for us. Once everyone is seated, if you absolutely must, you may sneak a photo or two but please refrain from excessive picture-taking and recording. Other than the ceremony, yes! Feel free to take as many photos and videos as you like. There will be a QR code available at the reception for guests to share and view everyone's pictures as well.
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Where can I find your wedding registry?
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You can find our registry through Amazon at this link listed below or by clicking on the "Registry" tab. https://www.amazon.com/wedding/share/leslieandmattregistry Our Zola registry which are cash funds & gift experiences can be found at a separate link below or by clicking on the "Registry" tab. https://www.zola.com/registry/leslieandmatthewdecember2025
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Can I bring a plus one?
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Unfortunately due to limited seating, we can only accommodate guests who are formally invited such as those who are listed on the invitation you received. We please ask that only the named people on the invite are in attendance. Thank you for understanding.
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Will there be an open bar?
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The bride and groom have selected to have unlimited beer and wine during dinner. We want you to have the best time so the drinks are on us but the hangover is on you! Please consider arranging transportation if you plan on drinking. We want all our loved ones to make it home safe!
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I have a food allergy/dietary restriction, will there be accomodations?
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Of course! The bride is familiar with food allergies and chose a venue that handles food allergies with care. Please let us know in advance how we can assist you.
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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?
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Since we are having an intimate gathering with close friends and family, we welcome you to stop at the groom's parent’s residence for a small after party after dinner at 10:30pm.
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Will we be outside for the wedding?
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The space where we will be having dinner is indoors, though we do have access to french doors that lead to a terrace adjoining the venue space. Weather permitting, we may be able to go out on the terrace, so please make sure to dress appropriately or bring an extra layer to keep warm. But of course if you choose, you are welcome to remain indoors for the entirety of dinner!
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I am from out of town, do you have any hotel recommendations?
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The Springhill Suites Tuckahoe by Marriott is a great hotel in close proximity to both the church and venue (no more than an 8-10 minute drive).