FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Saturday, September 6, 2025!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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We kindly ask guests to arrive between 4:00 and 4:15 p.m. This will give you plenty of time to park, find your seat, and settle in before we say “I do.” The ceremony will begin promptly at 4:30 p.m.

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Are you registered? Where?

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https://www.honeyfund.com/site/bufkin-lesinger-10-18-2025

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Is there a dress code?

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Dressy Caszh (Casual) We’re keeping it stylish, but low-key—think "I made an effort, but I’m still comfy enough to dance all night." For the Ladies: Flowy dresses, jumpsuits, or chic separates are totally welcome. Heels are fine, but cute flats or sandals work too—bonus points for being dance-floor friendly. For the Gents: Think elevated casual—button-downs or nice polos, chinos or dress pants. A blazer’s optional, a tie’s not required, and clean sneakers or loafers are fair game. No tuxes. No ball gowns. Can’t wait to see you looking effortlessly fabulous!

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Can I Take Pictures During The Ceremony?

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We will be having an unplugged ceremony — a special time for us all to be fully present, without the distraction of phones or cameras. Once the ceremony begins, we kindly ask that all devices be silenced and put away. Our amazing photographer will be capturing every moment, and we can’t wait to share those memories with you afterward. Thank you for helping us create a meaningful and intimate experience.

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Can I Take Pictures During the Reception?

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Absolutely — go crazy! We’d love to see the day through your eyes. We’ve set up a shared photo album so everyone can contribute their favorite shots. Just look for the QR code on your table to upload your pictures — and thank you for helping us capture the fun!