Gifts not expected or necessary - as we say in AA "if you got it, give it - if you don't got it, don't give it". The most important thing to us is that you're here to celebrate with us! If you want to get a gift, we are registered with Zola, Target and Amazon. You can access it on the "Registry" tab of this site.
Clothes are recommended. It is Halloween weekend, so we'd love if you'd wear black- but wear whatever makes you feel like a million bucks.
Just because we lost our privileges, doesn't mean you can't have a drink. We're having an open bar and hope you enjoy! It's only weird if you make it weird, so don't do that.
We're doing something a little different as a nod to a tradition within AA. Every year on your sober birthday you receive a metal medallian, the medallian is passed around the meeting and everyone holds it for a moment to put their good juju on it. Before the ceremony our mom's will have our rings. We invite you to see them and hold each of our rings. Say a prayer, wish us well, admire the sparkle- whatever. During the ceremony when we exchange rings we'll take those well wishes with us as we start our marriage.