FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by June 13 by emailing us: leonora.stefanile@gmail.com
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What time should I arrive at the venue on Saturday?
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For those invited for the ceremony and reception on Saturday, please plan on arriving no later than 3:00pm, to ensure you have time to walk from the parking area to the ceremony locale. The ceremony will commence at 3:33pm. We invite you to arrive as early as 10:00am to enjoy a hike or a dip in the creek first! At 12:22 we will be doing a flower blessing in the creek, and you are welcome to join us for that too.
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Can I bring a date?
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Short answer; probably yes. If you have not been in touch with us regarding a date, please reach out to leonora.stefanile@gmail.com. Our guest list was tight as we try an accommodate everyone near and dear to us!
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Can I bring my dog or pet?
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Sadly, no. Tulie is the only pup who got a pass.
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What should I wear to the ceremony?
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Wear whatever makes you happy. BUT fabulous and beautiful outfits are encouraged! If you are hoping for a theme, think woodland wildflower romance meet garden party. Keep in mind this is a mostly outdoor wedding, so beware heels/ fancy shoes (may be muddy!)
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Should I bring something to share?
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If you are local and/or inclined, please consider bringing a vegetable-forward potluck dish to share that does NOT need to be heated up; we are hoping to line the buffet with delicious, hors d'oeuvres or salad-type things. If you want to bring something, shoot us an email of what it is you're cooking up and how many people the recipe will feed. We are providing local meats and veggies roasted on the grill, some sides, and of course a yummy cake! Of course, bringing a dish is NOT necessary! Also optional, bring a story about the bride and/or groom or blessing to share during the ceremony; we will be doing a quaker-style ceremony where friends and family share kind words and such in lieu of an officiant doing it all. Other things that would be nice to bring is beer, wine, and NA beverages to share, and local firewood for the bonfire Saturday night.
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Can I help y'all with anything?
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Yes! This is a DIY wedding and there are any number of tasks we would welcome help with. Please be in touch if you would like to help us set up, prep/cook food, grocery shop, retrieve food from the walk-in cooler up the road, break down, etc. Help is certainly not required to attend...if you want to just relax, that is more than welcome. Honor your needs and wants, dear friend! If you would prefer, check out our Registry if a donation is more your style. :) Those are CERTAINLY welcome, as it is mostly just cash funds to help us finance the event. If everyone pitched in $60, the thing would be mostly covered!
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What else should I bring?
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Bring rain gear and an umbrella if rain looks imminent; this is mostly outdoor wedding (though we can fit every one inside for dinner/dancing if needed). The ceremony WILL be outside if at all possible. If you are wanting to hang during the day, bring a swimsuit/towel (many lovely places to take a dip in the creek), hiking shoes, a change of clothes. If you would like to camp out Saturday night, you must bring all your own camping gear and email us to let us know you are camping: leonora.stefanile@gmail.com. Helpful other things to bring: sunscreen/sunhat, bubbly waters and NA drinks to share, firewood (locally sourced if possible), extra camping gear, disposable plates/cups/utensils, a water bottle for yourself and your fam, and a cool 'tude :)
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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?
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Yes; please let us know in advance if you have any dietary restrictions or allergies. We will have gluten free/ vegetarian/ vegan/ sugar free options available for the reception meal. We welcome guests bringing a dish to share as the reception will be potluck style; we welcome you to cook up something that suits your needs, either for just you or to share!
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Are kids welcome?
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Yes! Kids are welcome; just let us know if you plan to bring your kiddo, as it helps us with head count.
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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Yes, there parking at Laughing Waters, but if you arrive on Saturday, there may be a bit of a walk down a gravel road to get to the ceremony/reception area. So, consider bringing appropriate footwear, and accounting for walking time. To be clear, both the ceremony and reception are taking place at Laughing Waters. CARPOOLING IS ENCOURAGED!
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What's the deal with booze?
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The weekend and reception is BYOB, and please only bring beer or wine (we opted to not get a spensy liquor permit). We will provide those who would like one with a glass of bubbly with dinner, and numerous NA beverages. Please be respectful and do not over-imbibe though; a celebratory and lighthearted vibe is the goal!
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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?
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If you need transportation to and from your accomodation, please let us know; we are setting up a network of local guests who are willing to pick people up who need it in the surrounding area. Also, Uber and Lyfts are possible.